So SelfCentred
Because being a little self-centred is kind of the whole point.
Welcome to the blog.
This is where the overthinking goes to rest—alongside gentle meals, half-finished thoughts, and small joys that make modern life a little less unhinged.
It’s soft, slow, and a little too pleased with itself for cancelling plans in favour of a book, a blanket, and absolutely no regrets.
The Quiet Power of Stepping Away: Relaxation Apps That Support a Slower Mind
A curated guide to the best relaxation apps for stress, sleep, and mindfulness. Designed to help you slow down, reset, and build small moments of calm into your day.
I’m Tired But I Can’t Sleep — What’s Actually Going On
If you’re tired but can’t sleep, it’s not just in your head. Learn what’s actually causing sleep issues - from stress and hormones to lifestyle habits - and what you can do to fix it.
Shibby Magee Review – Carrie Kabak
A reflective review of Shibby Magee by Carrie Kabak. A character-driven Irish tragicomedy exploring identity, family, and self-acceptance through a dual timeline.
Decluttering Your Home: Freedom or Just Another Wellness Chore?
Decluttering is often seen as a pathway to a calmer life…but is it truly helpful, or just another modern wellness expectation? This reflective guide explores the emotional and practical benefits of decluttering, and how to create a home that feels intentional rather than minimal.
Solo Date Ideas for Every Energy Level
I planned a solo movie date and ended up questioning whether solo dates are really self-care or just another trend…Here’s what I discovered.
A Far-Flung Life – M.L. Stedman
A Far-Flung Life by M. L. Stedman is a sweeping Australian historical fiction novel and multi-generational family saga set in the Western Australian outback. This review explores its central themes of grief, secrets, identity, and legacy, following a pastoralist family across decades as hidden truths shape the next generation. With richly woven side characters, a strong sense of place, and a slow-burn, literary style, this is a reflective, character-driven novel that will appeal to readers who enjoy emotional depth and atmospheric storytelling.
The Measure – Nikki Erlick
A reflective review of The Measure by Nikki Erlick. Exploring mortality, identity, and the human response to knowing your time. Read on SelfCentred.
Why I Stopped “Eating Clean” and Started Eating Calm
I stopped eating “clean” and started eating calm. A personal reflection on nourishment, food guilt, and choosing peace over perfection.
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Letting go of clean eating helped me find a calmer, more balanced way to nourish my body - without guilt, rules, or food morality.
Rest Is Not a Reward - It’s a Foundation
Rest isn’t something you earn once you’re exhausted. It’s part of the system that keeps life sustainable - not a reward for productivity.
Boundaries That Don’t Require a Confrontation
Boundaries don’t always need a conversation. Sometimes they’re quiet, behavioural, and far more sustainable…especially when you’re tired.
Low-Effort Meals for Hot, Overstimulated Days
When the heat is relentless and your nervous system is overloaded, eating can feel harder than it should. This post offers gentle, low-effort ways to feed yourself on hot, overstimulated days - without rules, guilt, or optimisation.
I Wish I’d Quit Sooner – Dr Laura Hambley Lovett
A calm, research-backed review of I Wish I’d Quit Sooner - a practical guide to recognising toxic bosses, planning a safe exit, and rebuilding confidence after a damaging workplace experience.
Atomic Habits Review – James Clear
A thoughtful review of Atomic Habits by James Clear, exploring small habit changes, consistency, and why the ideas resonate in everyday life…no 5am hustle required.
A Gentle Guide to Journalling: A Soft Start to Supporting Your Mind
A gentle, low-effort journalling routine designed for real life. I share what happened when I trialled journalling for 30 days, the structure I used, and a free printable so you can try it without pressure.
The Overnight Oats Formula: One Base, Three Festive Flavours
Easy, high-protein overnight oats with festive flavours. Make-ahead, nourishing breakfasts - dairy & dairy-free (vegan) options included.
The Impossible Fortune Review – Richard Osman
A spoiler-free review of The Impossible Fortune by Richard Osman. A warm, witty Thursday Murder Club mystery with heart, humour, and clever twists.
Throw-Together Meals to Nourish Your Body When You Can’t Even Right Now
Burnout-friendly meals for the days when cooking feels impossible. Simple, throw-together food ideas to nourish your body when your energy is running low.
5 Books That Feel Like a Deep Breath
Need a gentle pause from life? Discover 5 cozy, heartwarming books for adults that feel like a deep breath. Perfect for slow, reflective reading.
The Art of Doing Less
Tired of feeling like you’re falling behind? Here’s how to gently slow down and live more intentionally—without guilt or burnout.
The Let Them Theory Review – Mel Robbins and Sawyer Robbins
A short, empowering read that reminds you peace comes from release, not control. In The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins delivers a refreshingly honest pep talk about letting people do what they do - and choosing how you respond. A self-respect reset for overthinkers, fixers, and recovering people-pleasers everywhere.